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Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Happy birthday watermelon cake

One of my daughters has requested watermelon instead of a cake for several years now. I like this year's version, as it actually looks relatively cake-like. We used toothpicks broken in half to attach the fruit to the sides.

Friday, May 2, 2014

Flax Gel Egg Replacer

I am sure you have heard of replacing eggs with flaxseeds. They are very cool, but this is cooler! normally you grind up flax, mix it with water, and let it sit for 15 minutes while it mucilages. It is used as an egg replacer in every recipe except truly eggy ones like soufflé or quiche. But, it has lots of brown flecks, affecting the texture, it does require a 15 minute head start, plus the ground flax, which I usually freeze to keep some of the nutrients. Well, flax egg gel is even cooler!
This smells delightful!

Boil 1/4 cup of flax seeds in 5 cups of water for 20 minutes. It should boil down to 2 or 3 cups. Than, you strain out the flaxseeds and are left with a lovely egg replacer! Use 3 tablespoons to replace each in baked good (not like quiche or soufflé, of course, but muffins and pancakes and all that). We store our in a jar and write "3 T=1egg" with a permanent marker on the jar. It keeps in the fridge for up to two weeks.

These taste better than eggs, have the same holding powers, but don't change the texture or flavor like flax eggs.

Flax Gel Egg Replacer
1/4 cup flaxseeds
5 cups water

Place flaxseeds in water, bring to a boil and reduce on low for 20 minutes. Strain out and discard flaxseeds. Use 3 tablespoons of gel for each egg. Stores in fridge for up to 2 weeks.

Peanut Butter Cookies (with Garbanzo Beans)

I could call these grain-free, sugar-free, vegan bites of peanut delight...but then my kids would never eat them. Which would really be ok, because I love them! Peanut butter cookies were always my favorite growing up, and our vegan friend brought these to my daughter. Do you notice how my best recipes lately have been personally passed to me from other people? What a blessing!

I used a recipe found at Texanerin.com, and for once made no changes. Well, except that I didn't use chocolate chips. There I go modifying again! Check out the original blogged post for tips if you want more info about these. They do require a food processor. Since I donated mine one day when I was attempting minimalism, I used the hand blender (which of course I acquired after I realized I would rather make my own mayo than have only 100 possessions). I suggest the food processor, as the
occasional Garbanzo bean chunk was not husband-approved. The rest of us, however loved the texture.


Peanut Butter Cookies (with Garbanzo Beans)
1 1/4 cups garbanzo beans, or chickpeas, patted dry with a towel(I soaked and cooked mine on low overnight, but canned would be fine)
1/2 cup plus 2 tablespoons natural peanut butter
1/4 cup honey
1 teaspoon baking powder
2 teaspoons vanilla

Mix all ingredients until smooth with a food processor.  Form into golf ball sized balls. Place on a cookie sheet with parchment paper or a pizza stone. Flatten lightly, then criss-cross mark with a fork. Bake for 10 minutes at 350.



Friday, April 11, 2014

10 ways to spend time with your children

Because I love this talk so much, I am reposting it in full. It explains the essence of my ideals of sugarfree mothering: completely nourishing; requires our full commitment; and entirely devoted to a child's ultimate growth. True love!

Ten Ways to Spend Time with Children
By Pres. Spencer W. Kimball

Mothers in Zion, your God-given roles are so vital to your own exaltation and to the salvation and exaltation of your family. A child needs a mother more than all the things money can buy. Spending time with your children is the greatest gift of all.

With love in my heart for the mothers in Zion, I would now like to suggest ten specific ways our mothers may spend effective time with their children.

Be at the Crossroads. First, take time to always be at the crossroads when your children are either coming or going—when they leave and return from school, when they leave and return from dates, when they bring friends home. Be there at the crossroads whether your children are six or sixteen. In Proverbs we read, “A child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame” (Proverbs 29:15). Among the greatest concerns in our society are the millions of latchkey children who come home daily to empty houses, unsupervised by working parents.

Be a Real Friend. Second, mothers, take time to be a real friend to your children. Listen to your children, really listen. Talk with them, laugh and joke with them, sing with them, play with them, cry with them, hug them, honestly praise them. Yes, regularly spend unrushed one-on-one time with each child. Be a real friend to your children.

Read to Your Children. Third, mothers, take time to read to your children. Starting from the cradle, read to your sons and daughters. Remember what the poet said:

You may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.
Richer than I you can never be—
I had a mother who read to me.
(Strickland Gillilan, “The Reading Mother.”)

You will plant a love for good literature and a real love for the scriptures if you will read to your children regularly.

Pray with Your Children. Fourth, take time to pray with your children. Family prayers, under the direction of the father, should be held morning and night. Have your children feel of your faith as you call down the blessings of heaven upon them. Paraphrasing the words of James, “The … fervent prayer of a righteous [mother] availeth much” (James 5:16). Have your children participate in family and personal prayers, and rejoice in their sweet utterances to their Father in Heaven.

Have Weekly Home Evenings. Fifth, take time to have a meaningful weekly home evening. With your husband presiding, participate in a spiritual and an uplifting home evening each week. Have your children actively involved. Teach them correct principles. Make this one of your great family traditions. Remember the marvelous promise made by President Joseph F. Smith when home evenings were first introduced to the Church: “If the Saints obey this counsel, we promise that great blessings will result. Love at home and obedience to parents will increase. Faith will be developed in the hearts of the youth of Israel, and they will gain power to combat the evil influence and temptations which beset them” (James R. Clark, comp., Messages of the First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 6 vols. [Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1965–75], 4:339). This wonderful promise is still in effect today.

Be Together at Mealtimes. Sixth, take time to be together at mealtimes as often as possible. This is a challenge as the children get older and lives get busier. But happy conversation, sharing of the day’s plans and activities, and special teaching moments occur at mealtime because mothers and fathers and children work at it.

Read Scriptures Daily. Seventh, take time daily to read the scriptures together as a family. Individual scripture reading is important, but family scripture reading is vital. Reading the Book of Mormon together as a family will especially bring increased spirituality into your home and will give both parents and children the power to resist temptation and to have the Holy Ghost as their constant companion. I promise you that the Book of Mormon will change the lives of your family.

Do Things as a Family. Eighth, take time to do things together as a family. Make family outings and picnics and birthday celebrations and trips special times and memory builders. Whenever possible, attend, as a family, events where one of the family members is involved, such as a school play, a ball game, a talk, a recital. Attend church meetings together and sit together as a family when you can. Mothers who help families pray and play together will stay together and will bless children’s lives forever.

Teach Your Children. Ninth, mothers, take time to teach your children. Catch the teaching moments. This can be done anytime during the day—at mealtime, in casual settings, or at special sit-down times together, at the foot of the bed at the end of the day, or during an early morning walk together. Mothers, you are your children’s best teacher. Don’t shift this precious responsibility to day-care centers or baby-sitters. A mother’s love and prayerful concern for the children are her most important ingredients in teaching her own.

Teach children gospel principles. Teach them it pays to be good. Teach them there is no safety in sin. Teach them a love for the gospel of Jesus Christ and a testimony of its divinity.

Teach your sons and daughters modesty, and teach them to respect manhood and womanhood. Teach your children sexual purity, proper dating standards, temple marriage, missionary service, and the importance of accepting and magnifying Church callings.

Teach them a love for work and the value of a good education.

Teach them the importance of the right kind of entertainment, including appropriate movies and videos and music and books and magazines. Discuss the evils of pornography and drugs, and teach them the value of living the clean life.

Yes, mothers, teach your children the gospel in your own home, at your own fireside. This is the most effective teaching that your children will ever receive. This is the Lord’s way of teaching. The Church cannot teach like you can. The school cannot. The day-care center cannot. But you can, and the Lord will sustain you. Your children will remember your teachings forever, and when they are old, they will not depart from them. They will call you blessed—their truly angel mother.

Mothers, this kind of heavenly, motherly teaching takes time—lots of time. It cannot be done effectively part-time. It must be done all the time in order to save and exalt your children. This is your divine calling.

Truly Love Your Children. Tenth and finally, mothers, take the time to truly love your children. A mother’s unqualified love approaches Christlike love.

Here is a beautiful tribute by a son to his mother: “I don’t remember much about her views of voting nor her social prestige; and what her ideas on child training, diet, and eugenics were, I cannot recall. The main thing that sifts back to me now through the thick undergrowth of years is that she loved me. She liked to lie on the grass with me and tell stories, or to run and hide with us children. She was always hugging me. And I liked it. She had a sunny face. To me it was like God, and all the beatitudes saints tell of Him. And Sing! Of all the sensations pleasurable to my life nothing can compare with the rapture of crawling up into her lap and going to sleep while she swung to and fro in her rocking chair and sang. Thinking of this, I wonder if the woman of today, with all her tremendous notions and plans, realizes what an almighty factor she is in shaping of her child for weal or woe. I wonder if she realizes how much sheer love and attention count for in a child’s life.”

Mothers, your teenage children also need that same kind of love and attention. It seems easier for many mothers and fathers to express and show their love to their children when they are young, but more difficult when they are older. Work at this prayerfully. There need be no generation gap. And the key is love. Our young people need love and attention, not indulgence. They need empathy and understanding, not indifference from mothers and fathers. They need the parents’ time. A mother’s kindly teachings and her love for and confidence in a teenage son or daughter can literally save them from a wicked world.

Blessings of the Lord upon Parents

In closing, I would be remiss this evening if I did not express my love and eternal gratitude for my sweetheart and companion and the mother of our six children. Her devotion to motherhood has blessed me and our family beyond words of expression. She has been a marvelous mother, completely and happily devoting her life and her mission to her family. How grateful I am for Flora!

May I also express my gratitude to you fathers and husbands assembled this evening. We look to you to give righteous leadership in your home and families and, with your companions and the mothers of your children, to lead your families back to our Eternal Father.

Now God bless our wonderful mothers. We pray for you. We sustain you. We honor you as you bear, nourish, train, teach, and love for eternity. I promise you the blessings of heaven and “all that [the] Father hath” (see D&C 84:38) as you magnify the noblest calling of all—a mother in Zion. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Date cookies

A friend made these for us. She said:
You get 3 ripe bananas and mash them up.  Then add 2 cups of regular oats, 1 cup of dates, 1/3 cup of applesauce, a dash of salt, and 1 t. vanilla.  Mix all the ingredients together and let it sit for about 10 minutes.  Then drop by spoonfuls onto a non-greased cookie sheet.  Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes.  

We made them, added coconut, cinnamon, and a dash of salt. Super easy and everyone loves them! My mom said she could go sugarfree if she made these occassionally.

Strawberry Pie


INGREDIENTS:
2 (9 inch) pie shells, baked
2 pints fresh strawberries
3 cups white grape juice
2.5 tablespoons cornstarch
2 T gelatin

DIRECTIONS:
In a saucepan, mix together 2cups of the juice and the corn starch; blend corn starch in completely. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until mixture thickens. Remove from heat. Meanwhile, add gelatin to remaining juice and let stand one minute or more. Add gelatin mixture to corn starch mixture and stir until smooth. Place strawberries in baked pie. Pour cooled gel mixture over strawberries. Refrigerate until set.

Sunday, February 9, 2014

More defense for wheat

To back my opinion that wheat really is good for you, here is an article stating that it may be the lack of vitamin C (and I insert my own opinion that this is dietary, not supplements) that is causing the body's difficulty with gluten.  Think about it! If we had scurvy, we would probably also be having issues with digesting wheat.  It is probably both more subtle and more involved, but I am sure we would all be happier with a couple of organic oranges added to our day.